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Love, Trust, and Friends
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Written by Dr. Tru Luv   
Wednesday, 09 September 2009 06:24

Love, Trust, and Friends.

BY: Michael Cross (Dr. Tru Luv)

 

            Friends can make or break a relationship. Don’t give into the myth that says, “all we need is each other,” because this is a lie. Human beings are social creatures. This means we need social interaction with other people, multiple people.

            When it comes to relationships, there are two types of “friend zones,” and both are crucial for a successful relationship. The first is mutual friends. These friends are generally other couples that you and your partner hang out with. You go on double dates, have game nights, and do other couples’ activities. Having friendships like these are important for fun, social interaction, and maybe expressing some personal issues. However, do not express relationship problems that you and your partner may be experiencing, with your mutual friends. This is a bad idea due to the fact that couples that are friends will most likely take one person’s side, usually the girls will team up and the guys will team up. This causes even more problems within the circle. In general, mutual friends are pretty easy to handle.

            Personal friends, however, is where the major problems occur. This is generally the area that causes the most stress among couples. First, let’s just get one major problem out of the way. There is a saying that says “bad company corrupts good morals,” and let me tell you, you can’t get closer to the truth than that. So, if you simply just cannot like or trust your partner’s close friends because of their actions and personality, then get out of the relationship. Everyone knows that a person is exactly like the people he or she hangs out with. Therefore, if your partner’s friends are disrespectful, crude, and flat out untrustworthy, then most likely your partner is the same way, and he or she is just putting on a front and you are being blinded.

            When people go through problems, boys need their boys, and girls need their girls. This is universal knowledge. Therefore, couples need to be respectful of that. Don’t try to steal every bit of your partner’s attention so that it drives away all their close friends. Let them have fun with their friends and give them some flexibility, because you yourself know that you need that space too. Close friends are the ones you can escape to and communicate both personal and relationship problems with. Friends are very influential and helpful, they can save your relationships at times, but they can also destroy relationships if not handled carefully. Couples, be wise in how you and your partner deal with friends, and talk about it with each other. Communicate your thoughts. If you are single, then choose a person that is surrounded by a good group of friends.  Remember, bad company can corrupt good morals, but good company will produce a stronger character.
 
The Potential Role of Value Investing In Volatile Markets
Sunday, 23 August 2009 21:22

The Potential Role of Value Investing In Volatile Markets

 

This article has been written and provided by UBS Financial Services Inc & Stephen Grimes Financial Advisor

 

The inclusion of equities in a portfolio is essential to pursuing most financial goals, because equities historically have outperformed all types of bonds and cash alternatives over the long term, and their higher returns help combat inflation.[1]  Sharp price swings in equities that can arise due to market volatility, however, can cause even some of the most disciplined investors to turn jittery and unload their portfolios.  In a turbulent market environment, suitable investors looking for the capital appreciation potential that equities provide – with a lower level of volatility than other types of equities – often find value investments appealing.  Utilizing a process known as tactical allocation, an investor can create a core holding of investments in their portfolio, and utilize surrounding holdings to help dampen volatility during market corrections or downturns, or capture upside potential during market increase or expansion.

A professional investment management program may be an appropriate strategy for helping to build personal investment portfolios. Your financial advisor can help you determine what strategy is suitable for your specific situation, in light of your risk tolerance, investment objectives, and liquidity needs.  For more information about how you can diversify your portfolio with value investments, and information about other defensive investment strategies that may be appropriate in a volatile market environment, please contact your financial advisor.

Please send questions regarding any financial questions, we will continue to have monthly commentary and answer selected questions in upcoming articles.

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The information contained in this article is based on sources believed reliable, but its accuracy cannot be guaranteed. This article is for informational and educational purposes only and should not be relied upon as the basis for an investment decision. Consult your financial advisor, as well as your tax and/or legal advisors regarding your personal circumstances before making investment decisions.



[1] Past performance is not a guarantee of future results.  Based on data provided by Ibbotson Associates, Chicago, 1926-2006.

 
Secrets of Pageant Bodies
Written by Brian Attebery   
Wednesday, 19 August 2009 21:46

brianatteberySecrets of Pageant Bodies

 

Pageantry is a word that conjures up so many ideas.  If you listen to Simon Cowell, from American Idol, “fame” is simply a negative term.  Through recent years we have seen the media bash quite a few of the “pageant world’s” stars and in many cases, rightly so.  That being said, I have had the opportunity since 1997 to be responsible for hundreds of pageant contestants fabulous, fit bodies.

 

I began training pageants girls on a fluke.  A company I was working for had a couple of Miss Oklahoma contestants preparing for the pageant in Tulsa that next June.  They had been training with some of the other trainers and apparently their directors were not happy with their progress.  Being the head trainer, I was given the opportunity to take over and a few months later, I had my first preliminary swimsuit winner.  A young lady, who had been a size 8-10 the year before became a size 2 within a few months.  I had two other girls that came in at their all time best and I was on to something.  

 

Since 1997 I have had 14 preliminary swimsuit winners in The Miss Oklahoma Scholarship Pageant.  In 2000 I became the official trainer for The Miss Oklahoma U.S.A. Pageant and now am in charge of Kansas, Missouri, Arkansas, and Nebraska regions.  I also train their teen contestants.  To date I have trained one Miss America, Two Miss Teen U.S.A., Two Miss National Teenagers, and a runner-up in Miss U.S.A.  I have had multiple finalists in all of the above.  That being said, just how do you train a pageant contestant?

 

When a pageant contestant comes to me the very first thing to address is, “how much time do we have to get you in top shape?” The next topic of conversation is nutrition.  Now, contrary to popular belief, pageant girls do eat.  At least the ones that I train eat a minimum of 1200-1500 calories per day.  I also go over physiology of nutrition with them.  I explain how to eat, how much to eat, and timing of certain types of foods.  I examine what they eat currently and try to help them form a plan that works best for their taste buds.  The diet is curtailed, based on where their body fat currently is, when the pageant is, and what we need to do with their body.

 

The next phase of the program development is the weights training.  Yes, my girls do lift weights.  Some lift 3 days a week and some lift 4-6 days per week.  This all depends on their body type.  Some lift lighter weights and some lift heavier weights.  There is no such thing as a “pageant girl” workout it is still “personal” training.  We change things every 4-6 weeks based on their progress and as we get closer to the competition, we might change things weekly or daily. 

 

The third step in the process is cardiovascular training.  This is crucial for peeling the body fat off.  Some girls might not do more than 30 minutes on the treadmill, 4 days per week.  On the other hand, I have had girls do 2 hours per day, 6 days per week.  Once again, it all depends on what we need to do and when we need to do it.

 

Those awesome pageant bodies are earned is what I hope you see.  Many times, people like to make excuses why they cannot look a certain way.  What it comes down to is the ability to set goals, and systematically attack them.  This is where I come in and do my best to help my girls achieve their very best.  They work for it and learn skills for their lives.  I know that I was very vague about what I do.  Well, did you really think I was going to give away my secrets?  I just recently saw one of my former girls in her bikini modeling, for an ad Maxim magazine.  That was pretty cool but…. she knows my secrets!!!  Ha! Ha!

 

(Brian Attebery is an N.F.P.A. Certified Trainer with a B.S. in Health & Sport Sciences from O.U.  He owns Results Fitness and Nutrition Center, L.L.C. in Edmond).   www.resultsfitnessusa.com

 
It’s time to talk football
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Written by Brandy Morris   
Wednesday, 19 August 2009 21:32

football2Football camps will be kicking off soon for college football.  

 It’s time to talk football.

By Brandy Morris



Bob Stoops, Sam Bradford and the rest of the Oklahoma Sooners are back to square one after last year’s loss to the Florida Gators in the Orange Bowl.  The Heisman winner will have a great arsenal with eleven players returning to the offense this season.  Sophomore Ryan Broyles is the only wide receiver returning to the Sooners this season so Stoops and the Sooners are going to be looking for players to fill some key offensive positions.  Bradford will also have to contend with a new center, will it be Junior Jason Hannan or Freshman Ben Habern replacing Jon Cooper?  We will find out when they hit the field.

The Sooners will have nine starters return this season on the defensive side, with so many starters returning the defense should not stumble, only improve from its national ranking of 99 in pass coverage from last season.  There should not be any doubt that last year’s defensive standouts, Seniors Auston English and Keenan Clayton as well as Junior Dominique Franks and the offensive standouts of Juniors Demarco Murray and Mossis Madu, and the seniors, Jermaine Gresham and Chris Brown all should have a season full of highlighted plays to keep Sooner fans happy.  The Sooner season begins September 5, when they take on BYU in Arlington, TX.  The game will be aired on ESPN.  The Sooners have made the Sporting News top five, coming in ranked as number three.

The Tulsa Golden Hurricanes punishment of Ball State with a score of 45-13 in the GMAC Bowl was a successful conclusion to a 2008 season.  The Golden Hurricane has 16 offensive players and 20 defensive players returning this season.  The Hurricanes and Coach Todd Graham, begin a new season with a hunt for a new quarterback.  There are three candidates battling for the position Freshman Shavodrick Beaver, Junior G.J. Kinne and Senior Jacob Bower.

Whoever is chosen will have a great target to throw to in Sophomore Damaris Johnson this season.  Johnson, a freshman last season, finished fifth nationally, in all-purpose yards.  On the defensive side, Senior Safety James Lockett, who last season had 82 tackles, 16.5 tackles for loss, 8.5 sacks and  forced five fumbles will be a force to be reckoned with this season.  The Hurricanes will have plenty of other seasoned wide receivers for the quarterbacks to pass the ball to.

The Golden Hurricane season will kick off with three road games the first on September 4 at Tulane, and then they take on New Mexico and on September 19 take on the Oklahoma Sooners.  They face a tough road early in the season to fight their way back to the Conference USA championship game.  Tulsa has made the Sporting News Top 50, coming in at number 41.

The Oklahoma State Cowboys are looking to bounce back after their loss to Oregon in the Pacific Life Holiday bowl last season.  Coach Mike Gundy and his Co-offensive coordinator are going to have a solid offense to make plays this season.  Senior Quarterback Zach Robinson returns to lead the Cowboys to a successful season.  OSU has 15 returning starters this season. Junior Wide-receiver Dez Bryant returns to the field to lead the cowboys in receptions and make a few dazzling catches in the end zone.  The cowboys were ranked sixth nationally in total offense with an average of 487 yards per game.

Robinson is one of two Big 12 quarterbacks, the other being Texas quarterback Colt McCoy, nominated for the Johnny Unitas Golden Arm Award.

Junior Kendall Hunter and Senior Keith Toston, two of Robinson’s favorite backs will be back, along with many other talented players this season to make the Cowboy faithful happy.  The Cowboy staff welcomes new running backs coach Robert Gillespie and Defensive Coordinator Bill Young to the coaching corral at OSU this year.

The Cowboy’s season will kick-off September 5 against the Georgia Bulldogs at 2:30; the game will be aired on ABC.  The Cowboys and the Sooners do not face-off until November 28 in Norman.  The game is looking to be a shootout as both teams will be ready for battle. The Cowboys have made the Sporting News Top 10 coming in at 10.

In the preseason media Big 12 polls, OU and OSU finished second and third respectively behind Texas in the South.  Both teams are laden with talent and should put on a great show for their respective fans.

 
Has Your Relationship Become a Routine?
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Written by Dr True Love   
Tuesday, 04 August 2009 06:06

Does it seem like your relationship is losing its spark? Do you frequently ask yourself, “Why can’t my relationship be like it used to be?” If you feel this way, then you already figured out what the problem is, but you, like most people, ignore the most common issue that destroys relationships everyday.  The issue is “pursuing.”

 

When you first start dating someone everything is exciting and thrilling. The reason it’s so exhilarating is because both people are consistently pursuing one another.  Each are thinking of new, creative ways to surprise their partner, compliments are being given constantly, and there is lots of affection. Now that I’ve mentioned the obvious, what do people need to do to make their relationships feel this way again? The answer is very simple, PURSUE one another.

 

Couples tend to get too comfortable in their relationships the longer it goes on. Guys stop giving compliments, get lazy on dates, lose creativity, and stop appreciating the little things their girl does for them. Girls don’t make their man feel important anymore, withhold affection, and also quit giving compliments. The relationship becomes like another daily routine rather than an exciting part of life. Go back to where you first began and pursue each other continually and don’t stop pursuing. Be creative and think of new ways to impress, live everyday like you are still trying to win your partner over. This keeps the relationship exciting and thrilling.

 

Ladies, realize that men need to feel important. Make them feel successful, accomplished, and confident in who they are. Men are also very physical creatures, give them affection and lots of it by holding hands, giving little kisses, cuddling on the couch, and maybe even better intamacy.

 

Guys, all girls grow up dreaming of being a Princess who gets swept off her feet by her “Knight in Shining Armor.” Be chivalrous in everything you do. Tell her continuously how beautiful and special she is to you. Bring her flowers, leave little surprises, and call her just to tell her you love her and that you are thinking of her. Even saying little things like “you look nice today”, “thank you for cleaning up after me”, or “great job on dinner tonight” makes them feel appreciated.

 

Don’t turn your relationships into a routine. If you feel like it’s becoming that way, just remember to go back to what you first did…PURSUE!
 
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